Pick it up with a mindset of letting go, let it go with a mindset of picking it up, strive with the nonchalance of what I don't want anymore, and let go with the determination of going all out. When you can understand the principle within the movement of opposites, you will feel much more comfortable. You can't force it, I don't want it. If I can't understand, I'll just sleep. If I can't pick it up, I'll throw it away. If it can't be explained clearly, then let it be. What you gain is meant to be lost. Losing is meant for exchanging again. Living is for experiencing. If you can't pick it up, then let it go; if you can't let it go, then pick it up. A relationship, once let go, can actually feel much easier. An object, once distanced, can actually bring clarity. Facing challenges, not caring, can actually lead to letting go. In the end, you will find that most of the pain, those tangled issues, when approached in reverse, you will unlock. Remember, when you act in reverse, the world will actually revolve around you.